OK...
My host says that I cant pipe, so at least I know that its POP3 that I need to get sorted.
I managed to find the automail.php file and have added my domain info and api key.
I get a cron report back;
X-Powered-By: PHP/4.4.9
Set-Cookie: PHPSESSID=67dfec13072964c892b8e048cbffdab2; path=/
Expires: Thu, 19 Nov 1981 08 GMT
Cache-Control: no-store, no-cache, must-revalidate, post-check=0, pre-check=0
Pragma: no-cache
Content-type: text/html
Which I guess is ok, but the emails still do not get collected...