They are blocking it the response I got was
`A2 Hosting enforces SMTP sending restrictions to help prevent outgoing spam from our servers. It only takes one user sending spam from a server to negatively impact e-mail for all of that server's users.
Use of an HTTP API using standard ports is not limited for Web Hosting and Reseller accounts. Ask your mail provider if they offer an API to use instead of SMTP.`
Which brings be down the rabbit hole of using OAuth2, which is not supported.
What are my options?
The email address which customers email, I own have access to that email address and not the server/domain it is hosted on.